Handsomest Man in the World-Micheal Kors model

Who is the guy in the new Michael Kors ads? He is VERY handsome. He gets the Handsomest Man in the World award this week! Whew! What do you think?

Life can be complicated...

Dear David,
I am reading a really good book called "A Box of Darkness: The Story of A Marriage" by Sally Ryder Brady - her memoir about being in a long marriage and finding out right after her husband's death that her husband way gay. Do you think this happens often?
~Wonderin'

Dear Wonderin',
I wrote a book called "The Secret Lives of Married Men" about gay men who married women.

I think this is happening less and less because women are very well informed nowadays. I have read Mrs. Brady's book and thought it was great. Years ago women rarely had careers, were supposed to be virgins when they married and so on. And also I think men who are gay are less likely to lead a closeted life these days, as social pressure gets less and less all the time. What is interesting about this book is they did have good sex and she really loved him. She should have left at some point, but they had four children. Life can be complicated. It's up to you to try to keep it less complicated.

Can you just be in love with one part of your lover?

Dear David,
I read your blog last Thursday from Peter Perplexed and I am not sure that you can just be in love with one part of your lover. It doesn't seem to be very mature.
~Doubting Thomas

Dear D.T.,
I know, I know. But of course sex and love are not very mature. And perhaps if you only love one part and the rest of him is just no, it will inevitably not work out. But the rest of him might be fine. I do think you need to be hung up sexually on someone to really love them, otherwise it is just roommates with a little sex thrown in. And I find that immature.

Come On Out! with David Leddick ~ Episode 27

Today I'm talking about my latest book "How to Hit 70 Doing 100" for men and women, gay or straight - this book is for everyone and is a must to keep a positive outlook on life and aging!

"Don't think of yourself as getting older, think of yourself as getting more sophisticated"
~David Leddick

I love...

Dear David,
I love my boyfriend's penis, maybe more than I love him. Is that all right?
~PeterPerplexed

Dear Peter,
Honey, you've got to start somewhere.

Handsomest Man in the World ~ Charles Devoe

Today is Wednesday and today's handsomest man is from a Mangano ad spread from a European magazine. The model's name is Charles Devoe and he is very handsome.

Sadly, Charles Devoe passed away last year, read more about his very successful modeling career while he was alive here.

(Photo: Mangano Campaign AW10 by Maurizio Montani featuring Charles Devoe)

What to do...

Dear David,
What do I do when I'm about the have sex with someone I like/am attracted to very much for the first time and I can't get it up?
~D.

Dear D.,
I've heard of this but I don't quite get it. If this other guy is so sexy what's bothering you? He's not going to like it? You're too big? You're not big enough? I think you should just go down on him and if you never get it up, who is to know? Actually, try thinking of someone you find fantastically sexy in the midst of everything and see it that doesn't energize you. I bet it will.