What do I do when I'm about the have sex with someone I like/am attracted to very much for the first time and I can't get it up?
I've heard of this but I don't quite get it. If this other guy is so sexy what's bothering you? He's not going to like it? You're too big? You're not big enough? I think you should just go down on him and if you never get it up, who is to know? Actually, try thinking of someone you find fantastically sexy in the midst of everything and see it that doesn't energize you. I bet it will.