Monday, December 31, 2012

Things to do in New York on a budget...

 It's New Years Eve today! Happy almost New Year!

Dear David,
I live in New York. What are your suggestions for the things I might do in in the New Year to expand my life and make it more interesting? I don't have a lot of money.
~Going For It

Dear Going For It,
Number one, get stronger. Even if it's just walking around the block a couple of times everyday, or running outside if you can. Use the stairs everywhere possible. Get stronger all the time. You'll need it as your life gets more interesting!

How about meditating? I do twenty minutes every morning and it kind of balances you and prepares you for the day.

How about an adult education class? Particularly if you want to meet some new people. Something like Spanish, cooking or whatever interests you.

And something to do outside of New York ~ if you get a little money take a trip to South America. I LOVE Montevideo, Uruguay. I live there part of the year. And Buenos Aires, Argentina is just across the river ~ a very glamorous city. You could go to Rio do Janeiro, the most beautiful city in the world in my opinion. It's not really dangerous and you'll get a whole new point of view on the world. You'll start seeing New York in a new way.

Friday, December 28, 2012

Come On Out! with David Leddick ~ Episode 63

Hello my darlings, Happy Holidays! Today I'm talking about the 3rd edition of one of my books "In the Spirit of Miami Beach" out by Assouline Press. If you are in need of a last second holiday gift, this is it!

Thursday, December 27, 2012

Fashion Fashion ~ your color horoscope

Your fashion direction is going to be horoscope color predictions according to my Spanish language horoscope magazine (that I have translated for you) ~ here it goes for Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Leo and Virgo:

Aries   March 23-April 23
Red should be the favorite color of Aries. It represents passion, force and war. A lot of Aries have been divorced or broken off relationships recently. Love has been difficult although fortunately getting back together has been easy and will be this year. Especially important in the last months of this year is to wear red to make things go more easily.

Taurus   April 23-May 23
For 2013 you want to keep your social life and romances harmon you must wear green. The color of peace and stability. It is especially good for those prone to depression. Green is very good for Taurus as it slows down the movement of your agitated personality. Do not limit yourself to clothes only but also wear green for accessories and casual wear, sleepwear and undergarments.

Gemini  May 23-June 23
The color that will bring excitement to Geminis is yellow. In the first 6 months of the year, yellow will help Geminis get organized. And it not only brings you luck but enthusiasm. From July to December you should wear gray and silver to bring you good fortune if your are involved in a business transaction or relationship.

Cancer  June 23-July 23
In 2013 your colors will be light green, gray and yellow. The green will keep you connected to nature. It will inspire feelings of tranquility and create a feeling of control, calm and interior peace. For those reasons green will help you when you most confront difficult situations. In the last three months of the year your colors are yellow and gray.

Leo  July 23-August 23
Orange and yellow will be the colors for Leo in 2013. Across the board, do not confide your projects or problems to your friends. the olor that will help you through all the things coming up is orange. People of this sign tend to be a little anxious and nervous. Orange will help you think about things and remain calm.

Virgo  August 23-September 23
The colors for those born under this signs in 2013 are bright green and emerald. Also in this year Virgos should wear dark gray or black when having a work interview or important meeting. If you are looking for a partner don't forget to wear bright colors which will bring you freshness and feelings of being stable.

Wednesday, December 26, 2012

Handsomest Man in the World ~ Sean Connery

My Handsomest Man in the World is from the past ~ Sean Connery. The still reigning superior James Bond. Dreamy...

What happened? Self confident men like that just don't seem to be around anymore...

Dear David,
What was your Christmas gift to yourself?
~Just Askin'

Dear Just Askin',
I rarely get an inquiry about myself. My gift is that I am in Montevideo, Uruguay seeing the man who is more important to me than anyone or anything else in the world. More important that I am to myself. A big and wonderful gift. I remind myself everyday of this.

Tuesday, December 25, 2012

Merry Christmas!

No messages today ~ just wishing you a very Merry Christmas! This year is about over. Did you do ok? It's been tough but I'll bet you did, and before next Christmas it will be even better! Lots of affection to you all.

Tuesday, December 18, 2012

Help! I love my lover more than he loves me

Dear David,
I think that I love my lover more than he loves me. It makes me a little sad.
~Lorne Love

Dear Lorne Love,
Please don't be sad. Every relationship involves the lover and the loved one. Even if it's 51% and 49% it's never even. The Loved One always says, "No no, we're very equal." the Lover won't even discuss it. Not matter. You are the one experiencing all the feelings, the excitement, the romance. And life is all about feelings and experience, nothing else. Your lover may not be feeling as much but also remember as time goes by sometimes the roles flip. You may be the loved one some day! Hang in there.

Monday, December 17, 2012

Dirty mouth?

Sorry folks! I just came back from New York and somehow in the hurly burly I thought I had given my blog to the blog mistress, but I forgot! Sorry for all the posts on my facebook feed today, we will be back to normal next week my darlings!


Dear David,
I don't like to kiss. Is that unusual? It seems so unsanitary. Tell me!

Dear Mouthy,
Do you give blowjobs? I find this seems to be a gay guy thing - "I don't kiss but..."

The French writer Jean Cocteau kissed his poodle and a friend said, "Oh, don't do that. Who knows where that little mouth has been!" Cocteau replied, " I think the same thing every time I see you kiss your mother."

I wouldn't worry about the unsanitary part. Try just kissing his neck. Chew his ear. Men like that. You might move on to his mouth.

Friday, December 14, 2012

Come On Out with David Leddick! ~ Episode 61

The magazine DNA Australia just did an article about me, click above to hear a few excerpts from my interview. And find out about my worst date...

Also - If you're gay, you gotta come out! How can anyone fall in love with you if they don't know who you are?!

It's Christmas time, its almost 2013, Obama is President...let's be gay!

Thursday, December 13, 2012

Fashion Thursday ~ Your Fashion Horoscope for 2013!

Instead of giving fashion advice today I am going to look into this terrific Spanish language horoscope magazine I bought recently. Based on your sign, the horoscopes are what colors you should wear for the year and why. Let's start with the first 3 of the year, and stay tuned next week for more. I am a Capricorn in case you were wondering!

Capricorn: Dec. 23-Jan. 23, 2013
Your colors are black and gray. Particularly if you are planning a business venture, buying a car or a house or you are realizing some major project. These colors will give you vitality. If you're married wear some pink, it will make your life more harmonious.

Aquarius: Jan 23-Feb. 23, 2013
Plan to wear the colors yellow, light blue and aqua. You may add red if you are looking for excitement. After the mid year, if you have been wearing yellow you will achieve you plans for prosperity and will be able to experiment very well with innovative ideas.

Pisces: Feb. 23-Mar. 23, 2013
For good results in 2013 you fish signs should wear violet, blue and purple. If you have not been able to wrap up a project, you should also wear silver. Silver is the color that will bring you luck with all aspects of your life this year. This year you van expect legal problems. If you hang to avoid them swath yourself in aquamarine and dark blue. And unusual combination but don't blame me if you don't do it a get sued!

Wednesday, December 12, 2012

Handsomest Man in the World ~ William Levy

How about William Levy for the Handsomest Man in the World this week? We have featured him before - and he is just that dreamy to feature again. Please watch this hilarious commercial with him in it. I wish I was made out of chocolate!

Tuesday, December 11, 2012

How do you feel about...

Dear David,
I am gay and had a recent telephone call from my sister. Her husband has gained a lot of weight and doesn't feel like having sex with him. What did I think about about her just not doing it anymore? I told her you never need to have sex if you don't feel like it. It's called the "mercy f#*k" and I'm all against it. In my opinion nothing is worse than having sex when you don't feel like it.

But when I discussed this with my older brother (who is straight), he objected and said I should have never told her that. I thought immediately of his poor wife. The idea of sex being a duty makes me shudder. What do you think?
~Sex U. Al

Dear Al,
I 100% agree with you. With any couple - gay or straight - you owe it to the other person to remain f#*kable. If you can't be bothered, how different is that than just paying someone to have sex. Over time it has to ruin romance and that's a terrible thing to have happen in your life.

Monday, December 10, 2012

Part Time Lovers & Rent Boy the Musical!

Dear David,
My lover lives in Detroit. I live in New York. We both have relatively high level jobs on our professions and it would be difficult for either of us to find similar job in each other's cities. This has been going on for three years. I go to Detriot alternate weekends. He comes to New York alternately, too and we spend our vacations and holidays together, of course.

I love him more and more and want very much to live with him all the time. What shall I do?
~Part-Time Lover

Dear Part-Time Lover,
I don't think you are a part-time lover at all. Much as you don't want to hear this, your not living together is prolonging the romance. I have two rules for romance:
1. Don't go in the bathroom together
2. Never Eat In

You are preserving a lot of mystery and magic and I like that. Beofre long destiny will stp in and you will both move to Dallas or something like that. But don't rush it. A hard to handle romance makes it more and more valuable all the time. I'll be you're having a lot of sex when you get together - probably a lot more than if you had been living together this whole time!

My Dear Blogettes, I am very excited to announce my new show! I am going to New York in March 2013 with a revision of our show "Escorts" (based on my book) which is now called "Rent Boy the Musical." Our slogan is "Everyone on stage is for sale." Please visit for more information & for more info about casting!

Thursday, December 6, 2012

Fashion ~ beard or no beard, that is the question...

My fashion statement this week is brief. I have never addressed the subject of half shaved looks for men. I don't really get it. When I see men with that incipient shadowy little beard flitting and flirting over their jawline I immediately draw the conclusion that the jaw line is dropping. They are trying to conceal the fact.

For myself, I don't particularly like a love scramble with a man who needs a shave. Is this the attempt to look more masculine or what? For me it only looks scruffy and as if you didn't brush your teeth either. Here is Robert Downey Jr. for your perusal.

Did I ever tell you I had a big crush on Robert Downey, Sr.? He was a waiter at Pam-Pam in Greenwich Village before he began a career in underground movies. Long before Robert Downey Jr. was born. Very tall and handsome. Really great!

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

Handsomest Man in the World ~ Simon Nessman

This week's Handsomest Man in the World is a model whom I have had on here before...Simon Nessman. He is clambering upward in the profession. Check out this Georgio Armani ad for their new Gio fragrance. Great mouth.

I would also like to include this spread from the latest people magazine. The supposedly hottest men in all age categories. Am I wrong or don't most of these guys look almost exactly alike? Oval face, dark hair, very regular ken doll features. What happened to square jaws? What happened to those " I am going to go crazy if I don't sleep with you" looks. These all just seem like a bunch of nice American guys. Next!


Dear David,
I am seeing two men at the same time. One doesn't know. The other doesn't care. Mr. Number. One heard me on the phone to Mr. Number 2 and heard me say "darling" a couple of times. When he accused me of having an affair with someone else I lied and said I was talking to my agent and always call him "darling." What would you have done?
~Liar, Liar Pantsonfire

Dear Pantsonfire,
I would have done exactly the same thing. They always say they want to know everything. The don't really. Romance is a kind of fantasy. It is your job to preserve the fantasy. And there are some men who want the bad news. Don't give it to them.

Tuesday, December 4, 2012

Is it normal to have...

Dear David,
I have a South American lover who thinks it is quite normal to have sex daily and maybe twice. I would never tell my friends this as it would seem like we are kind of sex crazed. Am I wrong?
~Lotta Sex

Dear Lotta,
Yes, you are wrong. Lucky you!

Monday, December 3, 2012

Feeling like the "tagalong" partner...

(Lady Gaga)

Dear David,
I have been with my boyfriend over eleven years and he has become quite well known in his field. I like my work a lot but it is not the kind of thing where I will become visible to the public. More and more when we go to parties and dinners I feel like I am the "tagalong" partner in his shadow whom no one really wants to know. It doesn't affect our relationship but it bothers me. I think I am quite interesting and fun.
~Sour Puss 

Dear Puss,
I am sure you are very interesting and a lot of fun. What you are experiencing is what women have to put up with for centuries. And probably some men married to female Hollywood movie stars. I don't think it will affect your relationship with your Mr. Lover. I'd just bite the bullet. Or perhaps start wearing bizarre outfits and hats that no photographers can resist. Then the press will start referring to your lover as the "tagalong" to you!