My partner never wants to "top." He says it hurts. Honest. Any suggestions?
~Perfectly Happy but Perplexed
Interesting, I have never had this complaint before. I am assuming that this is in no way your fault. May I suggest oodles and oodles of lubricant. I would ask him exactly what hurts? If he really just doesn't want to do it...maybe it is strap-on time.