My lover of 7 years has recently felt the need for freedom. He doesn't want to break up but is suggesting three ways. I said "No", and told him it was time for us to go our separate ways. Am I wrong?
Dear Recently Single,
You are absolutely right. Once you start doing three ways your coupledom is over. You had a little secret world and you invited a stranger in. No way. And besides, in a three-way it's really a couple and a third party and I'm afraid the third party would be you. It's sad, but let him go. Your relationship evidently did it's arc and is over. Take a break. Something better is right over the horizon, I can feel it.